Welcome to yet another wave… identity. Life is such a roller coaster, a beautiful and thrilling experience, yet the lows can be so challenging. Here I am writing this piece because I feel lost or unknown… of myself. I know I haven’t written about my love story with my wife…

The wave of all waves — I wrote about my father, a notorious cheater if you haven't read. After much reflection, it’s taken some time for me to write about this particular wave. This wave addresses my biggest fear of being “like father, like daughter.” Knowing how the act of cheating affected my family deterred me…

On January 1, 2022, I drove my brother to the airport to make his way back to New York City. During this 25 minute drive, I vulnerably shared with him how I gave up on finishing my doctoral program. What he told me next would change my path for 2022…

I have the best siblings this life can offer. I honestly couldn’t be luckier to have a brother and sister who balances me and puts me in my place when necessary. If you’ve ever watched Bob’s Burgers, my siblings would tell you that the siblings on the show is a…

My Mama, how I describe her to many: A devoted educator A loyal spouse A loving mother — here lies my struggle, the wave. Lifelong Learning My siblings and I honestly are the luckiest children to be birthed from our Mama. …

I always share with people that my Papa is: A true professional An amazing father A disloyal husband — the flaw The Professional Papa is a military man through and through. He was never a Drill Seargeant, but I always share that I was raised by one. Well, maybe it's the tiger…